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Common Courtesy Stamp by Mirz123 Common Courtesy Stamp by Mirz123
** I really love and appreciate all of the supportive comments. It will take me a while to get through them all, but I do intend to respond to every one. **

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A wee bit of a ranty stamp, but purposely done in a non-ranty way...

This piece was prompted by a couple of online incidents I've had over the last few weeks. On one occasion, I simply asked how someone was doing, since they were going through a difficult period, and I was lambasted by one of their friends for being inconsiderate for expecting the person to talk about it. This just perplexed me, because I have always heard people complain about the opposite--that they would feel upset when no one cared enough to ask how they were doing. On another occasion, I was accused of being phony when I simply tried to be nice to someone. Truly, does the world expect, or even prefer, everyone to be jerks?

I know some people think that my nice-ness is fake, but it's not. I once read somewhere that throughout history, and in most cultures (even those with no connection to each other), there is some form of the Golden Rule. Namely, treat people how you want to be treated. So, it's not an un-natural thing to expect others to be polite and extend common courtesy. I simply live by that philosophy. I am just continually boggled how people get so much crap and abuse when they are only trying to be nice and helpful. And it saddens me that so many people feel totally okay making someone else feel like dirt.

And before anyone decides to go on a tirade here and justify why being cruel and abusive to others is okay, don't do it. Any comments that are overtly mean, disrespectful, or snarky will be hidden without warning--and I will do it at my sole discretion. I do not subscribe to the idea that you only need to be nice to people who "deserve" it, since that is wholly subjective. I agree that you don't have to hug every stranger you meet, but you don't have the right to kick them, either.

:bulletgreen: New stamp template by me. I may release later. Pixel font can be found in my resource folder ---> [link]

:bulletblue: You can find more of my stamps in this gallery folder ---> [link]

*** :aww: As with most of my smileys, you may use this on and off dA, without my permission. The only thing I ask is that you keep the file name in tact and don't remove any credit information. If you do use it for something, it would be nice if you could comment and let me know. It encourages me to make more smileys if I know people are using/enjoying them.

Please note, this piece is NOT available for commercial use.***

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:iconcomannderrx:
ComannderrX Featured By Owner Feb 23, 2015
sadly thats true, people have killed themselves over cyberbulling
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:iconmenollysagittaria:
MenollySagittaria Featured By Owner Feb 23, 2015  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Believe what? The video game thing? I don't know, the evidence is still pretty split at this point. It's just something to keep in mind as a possibility. (hence why I said "suggested") The internet thing? Yeah. Cyberbullying is a lot easier than in-person bullying, because there's very little chance you'll get caught, and people get "brave" behind a screen. And even if you do, the worst thing that can happen is an IP ban.
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:iconcomannderrx:
ComannderrX Featured By Owner Feb 23, 2015
you really beleive that?
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:iconmenollysagittaria:
MenollySagittaria Featured By Owner Feb 23, 2015  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Yeah, isn't it weird that politeness is immediately read as gay by some people? 

There's this once video I remember a comedian saying something like, "All these rough and tumble men are so afraid of being cultured, because they are afraid of the gay. Like, if you read a book, you're going to get a million dicks in your face. Like, what even?" 

I can understand being a gentleman is a little out of fashion, but really???

Femmephobia is at an all-time high, it seems. At least once, femininity was prized, if subjugated (bird in a gilded cage) but now it's outright derided. Dominant and overbearing women are seen as empowered and forward-thinking, while those who may be okay with being sweet and feminine are chastised as self-deluded and backwards. Can't we all just be who we are without getting slammed for it? 
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darkglaicalknight Featured By Owner Feb 23, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
Same here owob
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:iconmenollysagittaria:
MenollySagittaria Featured By Owner Feb 23, 2015  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Considering your signature, I don't think you care much. 

It's been suggested that video games can desensitize people to violence through reducing targets to objects devoid of humanity. Same is probably true for reducing people to pixels and words types- it's just so much easier to be cruel when you don't have to deal with the fallout or see the other person as an individual human being. 
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:iconmenollysagittaria:
MenollySagittaria Featured By Owner Feb 23, 2015  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Haha, being a nice rebel. That's always been my way of thinking about it. :P
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darkglaicalknight Featured By Owner Feb 21, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
Legitament question

best answer: Being an asshole is sadly more in .3.

...AGAINST THE NORM!
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:iconkiramaru7:
kiramaru7 Featured By Owner Jan 12, 2015
I often wonder this myself...

And I like your stamps, by the way. They're cute. :D
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:iconjust-call-me-j:
Just-Call-Me-J Featured By Owner Jan 1, 2015  Hobbyist
They didn't. Style went out of style.
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:iconcomannderrx:
ComannderrX Featured By Owner Dec 27, 2014
true, now everybody talks fucking trash with evryfuckingbody else
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:iconmirz123:
Mirz123 Featured By Owner Dec 27, 2014
I think it might have been earlier than that. But the internet made it WAY easier.
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:iconthejourneytaker:
TheJourneyTaker Featured By Owner Dec 27, 2014
You're welcome.
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:iconcomannderrx:
ComannderrX Featured By Owner Dec 27, 2014
oh yeah, around the late 90s,thats when
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:iconmirz123:
Mirz123 Featured By Owner Dec 27, 2014
:nod:
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Mirz123 Featured By Owner Dec 27, 2014
:iconseriousnodplz:
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:iconmirz123:
Mirz123 Featured By Owner Dec 27, 2014
True That Stamp by Mirz123

Thank you.
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Mirz123 Featured By Owner Dec 27, 2014
:iconseriousnodplz:
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Mirz123 Featured By Owner Dec 27, 2014
:icondummyhi5plz:
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Mirz123 Featured By Owner Dec 27, 2014
:icongladlikeplz:
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:iconmirz123:
Mirz123 Featured By Owner Dec 27, 2014
That's fine. You really don't need to credit me on every one.
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sunnybunny1199 Featured By Owner Nov 14, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Exactly. :no:
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:iconcomannderrx:
ComannderrX Featured By Owner Nov 10, 2014
good question
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:iconmisssensitiveness48:
MissSensitiveness48 Featured By Owner Nov 3, 2014  Hobbyist
So very true.
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:iconthejourneytaker:
TheJourneyTaker Featured By Owner Sep 3, 2014
More people need to ask this question. Very nice stamp! :goodjob: revamp 
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:iconcyberangel08:
CyberAngel08 Featured By Owner Jul 15, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Such a powerful question.
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RainbowTheKirby28 Featured By Owner Jun 23, 2014  Hobbyist Writer
I used this on my page! I agree completely.
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scarymary1212 Featured By Owner Jun 20, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Used on my page
Very cute stamp <3
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kosurui Featured By Owner Jun 17, 2014  Hobbyist Artist
Hey, I use a lot of your stamps so is it alright if I just give you credit on my page? (: I think it'd be quite some work if i'd have to comment on every single one of the stamps of yours i'd used... 
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JohnK222 Featured By Owner Jun 16, 2014
;-)
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:iconmirz123:
Mirz123 Featured By Owner Jun 14, 2014
Thank you for your kind words. They mean a lot to me.
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Mirz123 Featured By Owner Jun 14, 2014
:icondummyhi5plz:
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Mirz123 Featured By Owner Jun 14, 2014
:icondummyhi5plz:
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Mirz123 Featured By Owner Jun 14, 2014
:nod::iconyesbubbleplz:
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:iconmirz123:
Mirz123 Featured By Owner Jun 14, 2014
Thank you for sharing your thoughts. It is so disheartening sometimes. I think that's why we have to keep fighting to make it better. We can't let the jerks win. ;)

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:iconmirz123:
Mirz123 Featured By Owner Jun 14, 2014
I know what you mean about trust issues. It's hard. :heart:
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:iconmirz123:
Mirz123 Featured By Owner Jun 14, 2014
It really does. More than people know, I think. :heart:
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Mirz123 Featured By Owner Jun 14, 2014
Wow, that's impressive about the black belt. LOL! Thanks for sharing. :heart:
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:iconmirz123:
Mirz123 Featured By Owner Jun 14, 2014
THat's really nice of you. :heart:
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Mirz123 Featured By Owner Jun 14, 2014
Ugh. that's not cool. Glad you like the stamp, though. :hug:
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PerragrinesPen Featured By Owner May 19, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
USED on journal. I thought I'd never find a stamp like this. Applause to you! Clap 
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ThatCanuckToonNerd Featured By Owner May 2, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
USED. Couldn't agree more.
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EijiFuma Featured By Owner Apr 30, 2014  Student General Artist
Is it alright if I put this stamp on my profile?
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:iconlurainashadraco:
LurainaShadraco Featured By Owner Apr 28, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
You have such excellent things to say with your stamps.  It's wonderful to have discovered you.
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Khazzed Featured By Owner Apr 2, 2014
This stamp should be seen by EVERYONE and EVERYWHERE.

I've lost my faith in humanity by a great amount after the years of bullying when I was still in school, as well as everywhere where good things seem to be non-existant. Whether it be in game communities, internet in general or just out there, being nice and polite is almost like a taboo.
If you're nice, you become the black sheep. If you don't follow the "cool gangs", you become the black sheep. If you don't do this or that, that isn't something bad, then you become the black sheep.

Sheesh.. I don't remember literally shoulder barging people to be a way of saying "Hello."
And seeing the kids around from the school I used to go to, from the years that have passed from my own school times, it seems like nothing has changed. And it looks like at this rate, nothing would. No, I disagree!

Still, we cannot lose hope. Perhaps one day.. one day in the ever distant future we might see a day when being good is actually seen good.

"If everyone cared and nobody cried; if everyone loved and nobody lied; if everyone shared and swalloed their pride, then we'd see a day when nobody died." - Nickleback, If Everyone Cared ( I believe that was the song name.. )

Absolutely amazing stamp!
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Loosened-Screws Featured By Owner Mar 27, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Agreed. Being a harsh jerk is overrated. Even if you don't get thanks, it feels good to hold the door or something for people.

On the topic of assuming that your niceness is fake: I have minor trust issues sometimes, so I occasionally misjudge people's intentions, but I try to give them the benefit of the doubt.
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NintendoGamer5000 Featured By Owner Mar 14, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
It just hurts when people don't care about your feelings and your trying to be nice.  :/
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GoddessCureMystic Featured By Owner Mar 9, 2014  Student Artist
I've ALWAYS been to kind for people. I have bullying and abuse for that problem! Not to mention I always have to really sarcastic and become a smartass to someone who doesn't deserve my attention AT ALL. I mean, if you hate for NO REASON and start bashing me, There. Will. Be. HELL.
Not to mention that I'm a fourth degree black belt in mixed martial arts. :3 Always helps!
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:iconjohnk222:
JohnK222 Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2014
I think I try to be pretty courteous to people. I tend to become the doorman at shops. :D Sometimes when I offer to let people go by, they offer it to me, so that can be a bit confusing.
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:iconkage-niji:
kage-niji Featured By Owner Jan 26, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
I'm nice to people until they start treating me rudely. But I agree. I try to be nice and sincere to people and sometimes I'll get yelled at for being a faggot.
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