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Common Courtesy Stamp by Mirz123 Common Courtesy Stamp by Mirz123
** I really love and appreciate all of the supportive comments. It will take me a while to get through them all, but I do intend to respond to every one. **


A wee bit of a ranty stamp, but purposely done in a non-ranty way...

This piece was prompted by a couple of online incidents I've had over the last few weeks. On one occasion, I simply asked how someone was doing, since they were going through a difficult period, and I was lambasted by one of their friends for being inconsiderate for expecting the person to talk about it. This just perplexed me, because I have always heard people complain about the opposite--that they would feel upset when no one cared enough to ask how they were doing. On another occasion, I was accused of being phony when I simply tried to be nice to someone. Truly, does the world expect, or even prefer, everyone to be jerks?

I know some people think that my nice-ness is fake, but it's not. I once read somewhere that throughout history, and in most cultures (even those with no connection to each other), there is some form of the Golden Rule. Namely, treat people how you want to be treated. So, it's not an un-natural thing to expect others to be polite and extend common courtesy. I simply live by that philosophy. I am just continually boggled how people get so much crap and abuse when they are only trying to be nice and helpful. And it saddens me that so many people feel totally okay making someone else feel like dirt.

And before anyone decides to go on a tirade here and justify why being cruel and abusive to others is okay, don't do it. Any comments that are overtly mean, disrespectful, or snarky will be hidden without warning--and I will do it at my sole discretion. I do not subscribe to the idea that you only need to be nice to people who "deserve" it, since that is wholly subjective. I agree that you don't have to hug every stranger you meet, but you don't have the right to kick them, either.

:bulletgreen: New stamp template by me. I may release later. Pixel font can be found in my resource folder ---> [link]

:bulletblue: You can find more of my stamps in this gallery folder ---> [link]

*** :aww: As with most of my smileys, you may use this on and off dA, without my permission. The only thing I ask is that you keep the file name in tact and don't remove any credit information. If you do use it for something, it would be nice if you could comment and let me know. It encourages me to make more smileys if I know people are using/enjoying them.

Please note, this piece is NOT available for commercial use.***


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I know, right. I don't work in customer service, but I have to answer phones and some people are pure jerks. :/
Fun-dragoness Oct 14, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Totally. I try to be nice too and I usually believe people if they are being nice unless I have a good reason not to. Like if someone mean I used to know somewhere found me I'd have to be careful.
Yeah, it's awful when you're nice and people take advantage of that. :C
Fun-dragoness Oct 26, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
:C Aww
LightstaronToontown Oct 5, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Gosh, this is so true. I totally agree. It's hard to be nice in reality sometimes, I admit sometimes I have a snarky comment or roll my eyes, but on the internet I try my best to be nice, kind, and respect others. Yet, one time when I was offering words of advice, the person turned on me and called me a "wise b***h." Sometimes it upsets me when people just don't even care if someone's trying to help. :(
Well, I think we can all get snarky. I don't know if that's the problem. It's really when people just have a general crappy and nasty attitude. I mean, politeness is not "old fashioned."
LightstaronToontown Oct 26, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
That's so true. I just wish that some people, including me, could just not have such a bad attitude.
14AmyChan Oct 2, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I agree!
14AmyChan Oct 5, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
hehe~!  *^_^*
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