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Common Courtesy Stamp by Mirz123 Common Courtesy Stamp by Mirz123
** I really love and appreciate all of the supportive comments. It will take me a while to get through them all, but I do intend to respond to every one. **


A wee bit of a ranty stamp, but purposely done in a non-ranty way...

This piece was prompted by a couple of online incidents I've had over the last few weeks. On one occasion, I simply asked how someone was doing, since they were going through a difficult period, and I was lambasted by one of their friends for being inconsiderate for expecting the person to talk about it. This just perplexed me, because I have always heard people complain about the opposite--that they would feel upset when no one cared enough to ask how they were doing. On another occasion, I was accused of being phony when I simply tried to be nice to someone. Truly, does the world expect, or even prefer, everyone to be jerks?

I know some people think that my nice-ness is fake, but it's not. I once read somewhere that throughout history, and in most cultures (even those with no connection to each other), there is some form of the Golden Rule. Namely, treat people how you want to be treated. So, it's not an un-natural thing to expect others to be polite and extend common courtesy. I simply live by that philosophy. I am just continually boggled how people get so much crap and abuse when they are only trying to be nice and helpful. And it saddens me that so many people feel totally okay making someone else feel like dirt.

And before anyone decides to go on a tirade here and justify why being cruel and abusive to others is okay, don't do it. Any comments that are overtly mean, disrespectful, or snarky will be hidden without warning--and I will do it at my sole discretion. I do not subscribe to the idea that you only need to be nice to people who "deserve" it, since that is wholly subjective. I agree that you don't have to hug every stranger you meet, but you don't have the right to kick them, either.

:bulletgreen: New stamp template by me. I may release later. Pixel font can be found in my resource folder ---> [link]

:bulletblue: You can find more of my stamps in this gallery folder ---> [link]

*** :aww: As with most of my smileys, you may use this on and off dA, without my permission. The only thing I ask is that you keep the file name in tact and don't remove any credit information. If you do use it for something, it would be nice if you could comment and let me know. It encourages me to make more smileys if I know people are using/enjoying them.

Please note, this piece is NOT available for commercial use.***


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NintendoGamer5000 Featured By Owner Mar 14, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
It just hurts when people don't care about your feelings and your trying to be nice.  :/
Mirz123 Featured By Owner Jun 14, 2014
It really does. More than people know, I think. :heart:
GoddessCureMystic Featured By Owner Mar 9, 2014  Student Artist
I've ALWAYS been to kind for people. I have bullying and abuse for that problem! Not to mention I always have to really sarcastic and become a smartass to someone who doesn't deserve my attention AT ALL. I mean, if you hate for NO REASON and start bashing me, There. Will. Be. HELL.
Not to mention that I'm a fourth degree black belt in mixed martial arts. :3 Always helps!
Mirz123 Featured By Owner Jun 14, 2014
Wow, that's impressive about the black belt. LOL! Thanks for sharing. :heart:
JohnK222 Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2014
I think I try to be pretty courteous to people. I tend to become the doorman at shops. :D Sometimes when I offer to let people go by, they offer it to me, so that can be a bit confusing.
Mirz123 Featured By Owner Jun 14, 2014
THat's really nice of you. :heart:
JohnK222 Featured By Owner Jun 16, 2014
kage-niji Featured By Owner Jan 26, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
I'm nice to people until they start treating me rudely. But I agree. I try to be nice and sincere to people and sometimes I'll get yelled at for being a faggot.
Mirz123 Featured By Owner Jun 14, 2014
Ugh. that's not cool. Glad you like the stamp, though. :hug:
randomthefox Featured By Owner Nov 9, 2013
When were they ever IN style?
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